From: Amelia
Hello Jessica -- My friend Lynn Cominsky has converted me to the wonders of your info service; thanks!
My beautiful trail horse is very well-trained in the arena, where instructors are usually found. And she is fine on the trail with one or two other horses she knows. Unfortunately, I get only two riding days per week, and the weekend day often turns into a seven-horse trail ride, wherein Dolly sometimes acts like an idiot.
What you need to do is re-train her, so that she knows (a) exactly what your expectations are ON THE TRAIL, and also (b) that she must meet those expectations.
You need friends -- the all-day trail ride group would be perfect. I'm guessing that they find your mare's behaviour irritating, or at least distracting, and that they wouldn't mind helping you out. And you can always bribe them with food -- brownies make excellent bribes for humans. ;-)
You're going to play a game for as long as the trail ride lasts, and you'll need several riders (at least) and a wide trail or field. The name of the game is "lead, follow, stop, and go" and the purpose of the game is to teach your horse that when she is out with other horses, she must be able to go quietly whether she is first, last, or in the middle, whether she is going ahead alone, or stopping and standing while the others go out of her sight. She must be able to do all of this calmly -- and at all gaits, and she must be calm about being passed by other horses -- and about passing them.
The way to play the game: the riders take their horses out in single file, at a walk. The last horse in line then trots past all the others and takes its place at the head of the line, and then the new "last horse" does the same thing, until everyone has been first, last, and middle horse many, many times. Then it begins again, but with the last horse stopping, standing, and THEN trotting past the others. Then the first horse is taken out of sight of the others and made to stop and stand until the others arrive. Then you begin again, but at a trot, with the last horse cantering past the others, and when everyone is comfortable with that, the last horse is asked to stop, stand, and THEN canter past -- WELL past -- the others, and stop and stand again and wait for the others to come up.
It sounds simple and easy -- it isn't. But it's worth doing, and I think you'll enjoy the process.
Consistent practice is the key to this situation, and it definitely involves other people and their horses, so start bribing your friends! It may take a while, but it will be good for the other horses too, and their owners can either enjoy showing off how perfect they are, or work quietly on any problems that THOSE horses may have. And if everyone can do everything perfectly, you might consider forming a drill team and doing more complicated maneuvers, and putting on demonstrations. . . . ;-)
Jessica
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